As you may have guessed from my morning post, I’ve been having relationship issues. That being said, the relationship that I spoke about here, is now over.
Don’t worry you don’t have to flood me with apologetic posts. I’m okay. More than okay really.
I’m more relieved than I am sad. He had major trust issues and it was doomed to fail. Hhonestly, I’m just glad I gave it a shot and put myself out there.
I just wanted to clear that up, since there will be no more mentions of “the bf” anymore.
Like I said before, being in a relationship was not the source of my newfound happiness. And a lack of a relationship will not cause that happiness to dissipate.
Sure, I’m a little bummed that I’ll have to spend yet another birthday enduring “subtle” hints from my family about when and if I’ll ever catch a husband. That, however, is far more enjoyable than being in a relationship that is causing me heartache.
So… onward!
You are wise beyond your years friend…wise beyond your years. I wish I had your strength. Maybe one day…
i am so proud of you for putting yourself out there, giving it a chance and knowing that you are WORTH being loved. rock on GF. now when we meet up, we can go mantrolling together.
yeah, i said mantrolling.
Bahahaha! When are we going to make. it. happen?! I want to mantroll with you stat!!
good for you for giving it a shot – with these things, you just don’t know unless you try! And you have such an amazing attitude about this – that’s what many people don’t have.
“That, however, is far more enjoyable than being in a relationship that is causing me heartache.” – Amen to that!
I know how you feel Kacy. It’s certainly not easy, but you definitely have the right mindset about it. Let me share with you a great quote from SATC.
“Being single used to mean that nobody wanted you. Now it means you are pretty, sexy, and you’re taking your time deciding how you want your life to be and who you want to spend it with.”
When all else fails, just turn to Carrie Bradshaw.
Um, I am pretty sure I watch the entire 6 seasons after each and every breakup. Is that weird?
Nope. I watch it then, too! And when I miss NY and when I miss my friends…the very end of season six when CB comes back makes me cry EVERY time. In fact, I am going to watch it right now.
Me too! I wish I was home so I could watch it too! Or that I could watch it with you!
I couldnt have said that better myself! onward and upward…the past is in the past…lets look towards the future!
YOU GO GIRL!
I just got out of a relationship as well. It’s always a bummer, but now you can look forward to the fun single girl nights you can have until you meet someone WORTH settling down with!
At least you tried right? Relationships are HARD!
onward ho! good attitude love.
I’m sorry today is such a suck.
But yeah- as requested, I’ll keep my mouth shut bc I know you’ll be just fine! You sort of kick ass like that. 
When do I start playing Jay-Z’s “On to the next one”?
Hahaha, anytime would be great!
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i love your attitude! <3
Everything happens for a reason…good for you for not settling for anything less than the butterflies!
(Yeah sorry I couldn’t resist jumping on the SATC quote trend ha)
Bring on the SATC! I can’t get enough
I admire your positivity!! Keep it up
my mom told me that every relationship is a learning experience – now you know more about what you like/don’t like
Great positivity!
Kudos to you for finding the positive in a not so awesome situation. I love and admire that.
Onward is right!
Good for you girly for giving it a shot. And good for you for ending it! Trust issues are the worst! I have dealt with my fair share of guys that had them and they never get better. There is nothing worse than someone not trusting you! Like mentioned above you are wise beyond your years. There are plenty of awesome guys out there without those crappy issues.
Thanks! That means a lot girl
trust is important, if it’s not there then its not going to work
Yeah, you know..I understand why you wouldn’t want the typical “awwe, I’m so sorry!” comments because I’ve been in relationships like that before. You deserve a guy without any of those childish issues, so good for you.
I’m proud of you girl! You are always doing what is best for you!!
How long were you guys dating anyways?
We were only officially together for about 2 months. Dating for 4-ish. Ain’t no thing
Welcome to my clubbbb! Haha.
hey you. you’re awesome for being strong and putting yourself out there. i just got dumped (‘i want to take a break’) by my ex just two weeks ago. we were together fr 4 months. looking back, he too had trust issues…and a lot of insecurity. you are amazing and there is someone out there that will be clamoring to be at your side always
Great attitude. Onward and upward, my friend!
Good for you girl!! The longer a person stays in a crappy relationship the worse it gets.
Luckily my family wasn’t really ever into “subtle” hints like that. I find it so annoying when people ask those kinds of questions – along with, “When are you guys getting married?” and “When are you having a baby?”
I think it’s great that you gave it a chance. I think the most important thing is that you realized that you weren’t happy. You shouldn’t settle to be with someone. You deserve to be with someone who is going to make you happy.
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Hey, you live and you learn. Sorry your birthday might suck and family members might ask awkward questions but you’re a strong woman and you got this thang.
You are just that much closer to finding the one! And not wasting your time on the wrong one! And even though your fam might tease you about it, it still could happen any day (especially when you aren’t expecting it). When I met my hubby, I had no idea he would be my hubby…. things happen for a reason!
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aww hun, glad you’re feeling alright about it!
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